<~ Killing me Softly ~>

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Thursday, May 17, 2007

Finding Mr Right...

Something very odd happened today. I had to go lunch with a friend and he had this thing about being on time. I never fancy the fact that he always picks on it and in fact he's the only one guy i know who will go into full swing sarcasm at any expense when engaging me in a conversation. Sometimes i find it's his way of communicating with me (rather upseting at times)...Anyway...so i was making my way to the lunch venue when i got a call, he was on the line asking where i was and that i should start running since he was already at the restaurant. That pissed me off big time. I could have sworn i could have clawed him. I was close to picking up the phone and telling him go have lunch alone but i didnt. Maybe there was a reason why i didnt...afterall, everything happens for a reason.

He probably doesnt know this, unless he reads this blog that he taught me a very valuable lesson in life today. Not about punctuality of course..that's like my trademark..but something about life.

Guys whom i know have a tendecy to quiz me about my love life and he did the routine.So i told him bits of it..who i might have interest in and all...but there's this one thing that came out from that conversation that made me realise...Maybe i am looking at all this in the wrong light...He said "There is no such things as true love..bells dont ring and all and things wear off...it's how comfortable you are with the person". He went on to say that ultimately people need to be comfortable with each other coz things wear off..the sex,the fun and all and once that happens ..u just have to be able to tolerate each other's presence.

He's right and i thank him for reminding me that bells dont ring when u are in love, the love that you are looking for is merely a comfort zone where you are able to let this one person within your personal sphere and live with it for the rest of your life. I dont know how soon that will happen but i am looking forward to the one who i am comfortable with... :>

Labels: Fate, Mr Right, Punctuality, True love